Published on July 22, 2022

Helping Children Return to School

By Courtney Yeiser

Courtney Yeiser

When schools began to open back up this past year, more or less full-time teachers and students were looking forward to returning. While COVID-19 and NTI learning presented their challenges, so did returning after more than a year of being out. Many children struggled academically and behaviorally to adjust, as did teachers in accommodating them. Uncertainties with masking, contagion, social distancing and whether they would continue to stay in person led to increased stress and mental health needs. After finding their way through this year, teachers and students received a needed break this summer, but now we are looking at preparing to return. With COVID-19 having rising rates and recent school violence, we need to look at helping our children to be ready for school.

Remember the Four R's

For all-age children, there are four R's to setting them up for good mental health and an excellent start to the school year.


The first R is for resilience which is the ability to recover from difficult situations. One of the main factors in ensuring resilience in children is identifying and creating a solid support network inside and outside the home. A support network may include parents, extended family, teachers, coaches, pastors, and friends. Children must have unrestricted access to their support networks. Another essential factor to resilience is communication - allowing and encouraging feeling expression with your children. A great starting point is to practice I messages (I feel… when…) with your children and to model healthy feeling expression yourself.


The second R is Routine. We all crave and thrive with routine. Routine allows children to feel safe and have expectations in their environment. The best routines work towards finding a balance between consistency and novelty. It is best to begin implementing the school schedule one to three weeks before school starts so that children may adjust.


The third R is for Rest/Relaxation. This includes sleep, which is a major contributing factor to children’s mental health and is recommended that children get 9-12 hours of sleep per night. Rest also includes ceasing mental and physical movement and sitting in stillness. Allow and encourage children to participate in relaxing and quiet activities (meditation, reading). Extracurricular activities benefit children and their development when they are put into balance with rest.


The last R is for Rituals. This includes all of our healthy habits. Some beneficial habits for children to practice are coping skills, eating, and exercise. Basic coping skills to practice with your children are breathing, grounding, and muscle relaxation. Eating a healthy balanced diet ensures children's physical growth and has connections to their mental health. Exercise positively benefits both physical and mental health (walking, yoga, stretching).

Academics are very important, but mental health is just as if not more important for a child. An anxious child will struggle in school. A child who is depressed will struggle in school. An angry child will struggle in school. Setting your child up to be mentally healthy will reflect on their academic success. Also, remember that as a parent or teacher, it is important to set your mental health up for success.

Courtney Yeiser is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) At the Owensboro Health Healthpark.

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